Something I noticed that hasn't changed in over 10 yrs is that I am constantly giving advice to everyone who I see, not because I want to but because they come to me and personally ask me what should they do when it comes to their bf or gf, or their friends who did this or that, or something about what their parents said. I've noticed that a lot of people are looking for acceptance, something that we all long for but the wrong type can be detrimental to your physical and mental health. One thing I noticed that is never good is jumping from relationship to relationship, and this is something that I am not immune to. Not taking the time out to revaluate your past relationship and take the time needed to grow from it will cause most people to fall back in to a relationship that mirrors your past failed relationship. You might think well things will be different, but if your doing the same thing you did in the last, and you picked a guy or girl who is the same as your ex, then your most likely doomed to repeat the past.
Please people, life is long and its wide, and there is enough time to learn and grow, don't waste your time trying to overly make things work. A good relationship take time and work, but if its doomed from the start because of your stance in the relationship then you will repeat the past.
"Only by accepting the past, can you alter it" - T.S.Eliot
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